Author Archives: Hilary

I had a MAJOR paradigm shift happen today and I wanted to share it because it blew my mind.  I was talking with one of my grooms for October and he was sharing that his divorce from his first wife took 52 days. “From start to finish?” I inquired incredulously.  “Like, ‘I want a divorce’ to [...]

  As promised, I will be blogging based on the inspiration of the 1st Wave station on XM.  Driving is when I’m most pained by introspection – as the ribbon of road unfolds before me, and driving being so habitual, my mind wanders and, well, introspection. So, the song, “Are We Ourselves” by (The) Fixx [...]

     I’m going through a phase, so count on more, “So Very Clever Commentary” than tips on all things male.  We will call it the universal stage, as I hope my words are heard by both men and women. I recently purchased a new car, so I have XM or whatever it’s called and have decided [...]

Since you’ve been asking and I’ve been thinking, it’s time for me to weigh in on the Penn State sanctions.  If you will recall, my first two posts in November predicted this cascade and told Penn State to examine the Dallas Diocese as a blue print for their demise.  I’ll re-run those posts tomorrow and [...]

I’ve been prompted to examine the concept.  We’ve all been in a situation where we feel used.  What was it and why did you feel used?  It should be because you feel you are: a)     not appreciated for your efforts b)    giving, giving, giving- the other person is taking, taking, taking, possibly demanding of [...]

Finally, the long awaited, hopefully … The first book in the “So Very Clever” series is available for kindle.  If you do not have a kindle, you can download the kindle app for your iPad or iPhone.  Click here to order and please, please, please leave a review.  The social credibility is important for amazon [...]

So there I was at Kenny’s Italian Kitchen (and yes, I go there a lot because it is simply fantastic) and was being driven mad by a table of cackling women on the FAR side of the restaurant. This is not a small place and I was poised at the bar working. My glass of [...]